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I work at a high school and I am 21 yrs old. One of my co-workers has recently been making me feel very uncomfertable(sp). This guy is old enough to be my dad acctually he is older than my dad. We started off as friend we would go out to smoke. Then he started getting all wierd on me asking me what I think of him and I. So now I spend all day hiding from him and he still manages to come into my room. I'm so sick of it!!
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Dude tell the guy your str8, and dont wanna have anything to do with him like that. Or maybe the guy is just really freindly? Either way, you may need to tell your boss. Good Luck.
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Thanks for the heads up. Its just creepy you know. If he keeps trying to prusue me I am diffently going to let someone know. Just not the type to get someone in trouble if I don't have to. Maybe if I avoid him long enough he'll get the picture.
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quote:Originally posted by Matt96Teg: Tell him that you want to be "just friends." And you have a girlfriend.
And if that doesn't work, threaten to file a sexual harrassment suit. If girls can do it against scurvy men, so should guys!
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Definetly don't keep quiet about this, tell somone in charge. There have been so many cases where people are rejected and then try to do some crazy stuff. Good Luck
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Well I ended up talking to security and they talked to the guy. He doesn't follow me anymore, but he tries to be somewhere I am like where I usualy take breaks. I've just been avoiding my usual hang out spots. I don't want to get him introuble sould I keep avoiding him or talk to someone else?
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I'm with Vincent. You should at least give the guy the benefit of the doubt and explain to him that while you are flattered, you are not interested in him romantically. Then tell him you would like to remain friends- After all, you still have to work together. If you go the 'backdoor' route, you are going to make more of the situation than may be necessary. From what I've read you used to smoke with the guy so it sounds like you can enter into dialogue with the him right? It doesn't sound like you've told him how you feel yet. Avoiding him-in your eyes- should make it obvious to him you're not interested but I would strongly encourage you to have the tough conversation with him. If he is mature enough to handle it you should be fine. And if that does not work I would report the fact that you are uncomfortable with his behavior.
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What Caddy said! For this guy to be pursuing you that hardcore you must be an attractive girl.
If you have "the talk" with the guy and he still doesn't get the picture, then all you have to do is whisper in his ear "I have friends that can make you disapear" and that should get it through his head.
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